If someone wants to marry you outside the temple, whom will you strive to please - God or a mortal? If you insist on a temple marriage, you will be pleasing the Lord and blessing the other party.
A blaspheming Frenchman is a spectacle more pleasing to the Lord than a praying Englishman.
How else but through a broken heart may Lord Christ enter in?
My fake Japanese was smooth enough to earn me the title of 'The Emperor of Pleasing Graciousness' in that country.