I never speak for my husband, and I never speak for my children. It's a rule. Believe me, it is.
People shop for a bathing suit with more care than they do a husband or wife. The rules are the same. Look for something you'll feel comfortable wearing. Allow for room to grow.
The husband and wife are one, and that one is the husband.
Rules are for the obedience of fools and the guidance of wise men.