I think if we want to find happiness by finding a life partner, then it's a little selfish. You should be complete within yourself, so that when you're in a relationship, you can give out happiness rather than expect it.
Finding good players is easy. Getting them to play as a team is another story.
If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.
Never forget Yourself in the wind of success!!