Today, among little girls especially, princesses and the romanticised ideal they represent - finding the man of your dreams - have a limited shelf life.
The unfulfilling job is not the failure; not pursuing your dreams is the real failure. Developing a vision requires conquering your fears and finding motivation from within.
Reality is wrong. Dreams are for real.
Finding good players is easy. Getting them to play as a team is another story.
Your mind is nirvana.