Not every problem someone has with his girlfriend is necessarily due to the capitalist mode of production.
For a long time I had a vintage stall, where I sold men's vintage clothing, and my girlfriend was convinced it was just to do with a problem I had where I just couldn't stop buying senseless clothes, even if they didn't fit me.
Well, a girlfriend once told me never to fight with anybody you don't love.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
Robert H. Schuller