You throw the kitchen sink at your early books. You put everything in there. It's like when you meet a new girlfriend or boyfriend, you tell them all your best stories. By the time you have been married for 10 years, they are crying, 'Shut up!'
Best to live lightly, unthinkingly.
Save a boyfriend for a rainy day - and another, in case it doesn't rain.
Having a baby can be a scream.