When you encounter seemingly good advice that contradicts other seemingly good advice, ignore them both.
Good advice is always certain to be ignored, but that's no reason not to give it.
Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.
The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.
Ignoring facts does not make them go away.