What I tell my kids is, 'I'm preparing you for college and for life. So, having independence, knowing how to set your own boundaries, figuring out how to make that balance. We still have screen-time rules.'
I think that when you don't see the boundaries, you cross them without even knowing they exist in the first place.
Nothing on earth is more gladdening than knowing we must roll up our sleeves and move back the boundaries of the humanly possible once more.
Knowing that "me" is inextricably linked to blackness, [I try to enjoy] the process of expanding beyond the expected boundaries set by existing culture, norms and media.
Love the moment and the energy of that moment will spread beyond all boundaries.
Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.