The problem with self-improvement is knowing when to quit.
I've always admired your rather formidable will, your refusal to back away from difficulties, but sometimes strength isn't about perseverance. Sometimes it's about knowing when to quit.
Knowing when to quit is probably a very important thing, but I just am not ready.
Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.
Quit taking, start giving.