A fit body gives you confidence. And there's nothing more impressive than a great attitude, which you can wear on your sleeve. But you'll have to remember the difference between being rude and being confident.
I got an attitude, that's rude because I walked over Elvis' grave in some blue suede shoes.
My attitude is that if you push me towards something that you think is a weakness, then I will turn that perceived weakness into a strength.
Rude contact with facts chased my visions and dreams quickly away, and in their stead I beheld the horrors, the corruption, the evils and hypocrisy of society, and as I stood among them, a young wife, a great wail of agony went out from my soul.