It's difficult for me to trust a woman. Men are attracted to beautiful women. Women are attracted to men who offer security - financial security. And if you have money and you're famous, women find that sexy.
You don't have to be famous. You just have to find your own coven of bad-asses that you trust and want to empower.
I met so many people after I got rich and famous, and I learned that you can't ultimately trust people unless they were your friends when you were broke.
Rich parents are famous both for miserliness and astonishing longevity. And, when they finally do die, you'll find they've left their estate in inviolate trust to the golden retrievers.
Indeed, wretched the man whose fame makes his misfortunes famous.
Trust yourself, you know more than you think you do.