You can be cool and at the same time respect your woman, who will hopefully become your wife, who will hopefully become the mother of your kids. America needs to get back to family values.
Value your wife by valuing what she says.
Valuing public servants would boost morale among those on the front line of implementing government policy.
Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they are on the same side.
Your mind is nirvana.