I think it can be fun to be single and date-like when you don't want a relationship. Or when you've just gotten out of a relationship, and, after get over the initial shock, your thinking, Hey, it's kind of cool being single.
Being humble matters.
Over my pile of ashes
Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.
Your mind is nirvana.