Marriage is meant to keep people together not just when things are good, but particularly when they are not. That's why we take marriage vows - not wishes
Marriage cannot thrive on left-over attention, it has to get your best effort!
God is more interested in restoring our hearts to Him, than giving us a happy marriage.
It's all right to have expectations in marriage. Just remember to keep them at the feet of Jesus, not at the feet of your spouse
If you want a happy Christ-centered marriage, you must be centered in Christ!
In marriage, God rarely starts with the issues on the table. He starts with the ones in our hearts
God wants me to love my husband the way he is today, not the way he will be tomorrow. I have to stop with my expectations and just let God be God. His job is to change my husband, my job is to love my husband, right where he is.