Top quotes by Sebastian Faulks

In the 1970s, British food was beginning to get good, whereas in France it was just starting its long, sad decline. My most memorable meals, however, have been in Italy. Votes: 14

If I hadn't read all of Jane Austen and DH Lawrence, Tolstoy and Proust, as well as the more fun stuff, I wouldn't know how to break bad news, how to sympathise, how to be a friend or a lover, because I wouldn't have any idea what was going on in anybody else's mind. Votes: 14

It is fair to say the New Testament is the most ethically sophisticated of the great scriptures; the proper comparison for the Qur'an is with the Old Testament - against which it holds its own. Votes: 13

I am a romantic, in a literary way, by which I mean the Romantic poets, who thought just because a sensation is fleeting doesn't mean it isn't valuable. If the only criterion of value is whether something lasts, then the whole of human life is a waste of time. Votes: 10

The nicest characters in 'A Week in December' are, in fact, Muslims - and their religious devotion is one of the things that defines them. Votes: 8

I suppose that each of us may have a great moment in our life, a month, a week a year, when we are most fully what we are meant to be Votes: 8

I think closeness to death would be pretty exhilarating in a way, and friendship, yeh, and selflessness, a kind of selflessness, a sense of your own worthlessness, I think, is pretty exhilarating. Votes: 7

My ideal relationship with the reader is that at certain points they will have said, 'I'm finding this quite tough, but I'm going to hang in there,' then at the end they will say, 'Oh God, I'm glad I hung on, it was so worth it.' Votes: 7

If you have only one life, you can't altogether ignore the question: are you enjoying it? Votes: 7

Oh, the sweetness of giving in, of full surrender. Votes: 7

What I like in novels that I read and enjoy is interplay of theme: the mystery of how we seem to be so separate as human beings. Votes: 6

There arent many great passages written about food, but I love one by George Millar, who worked for the SOE in the second world war and wrote a book called Horned Pigeon. He had been on the run and hadnt eaten for a week, and his description of the cheese fondue he smells in the peasant kitchen of a house in eastern France is unbelievable. Votes: 6

I don't do interviews at home any more because my wife doesn't like having her taste in interiors put through the mill. And I get annoyed when journalists make snide remarks about the annoyingly pretentious shops in the neighbourhood - because I hate them just as much. Votes: 5

I don't know how you can understand other people or yourself if you haven't read a lot of books. I just don't think you're equipped to deal with the demands and decisions of life, particularly in your dealings with other people. Votes: 4

Gradually the feeling wears off, and I feel swamped again by the inexplicable pettiness of being alive. Votes: 4

That's what opium does to suffering: makes it of hypothetical interest only. Votes: 4

I have a tremendous battle with melancholy and depression. Votes: 3

To have been able to write the books I wanted to write, on demanding subjects like war and the history of psychiatry, and for them to have sold in the numbers they have - and then go around saying: 'Actually, I'd also like to have won the Costa Book of the Year?' That would be ridiculous. Votes: 3

My own diagnosis of my problem is a simpler one. It's that I share 50 per cent of my genome with a banana and 98 per cent with a chimpanzee. Banana's don't do psychological consistency. And the tiny part of us that's different - the special Homo sapiens bit - is faulty. It doesn't work. Sorry about that." Votes: 3

Why would a novel - which is all about the inward processes of people's developing feelings and developing relationships - why would you be able to portray that in pictures with as few words as possible, which is what the best films are? Votes: 2

My parents' generation didn't have any understanding of psychology or emotion or individual temperament. In fact, they were slightly embarrassed by all those words. Votes: 2

I believe your stomach tells you what it wants, and I don't think mine asks for anything that unhealthy. I'm a trained health machine. Votes: 2

The end-of-summer winds make people restless. Votes: 2

Some crime against nature is about to be committed. I feel it in my veins. These men and boys are grocers and clerks, gardeners and fathers - fathers of small children. A country cannot bear to lose them. Votes: 2

The function of music is to liberate in the soul those feelings which normally we keep locked up in the heart. Votes: 2

The best thing is the combined effect of nicotine with alcohol, greater than the sum of the two parts. Votes: 2

Memory is the only thing that binds you to earlier selves; for the rest, you become an entirely different being every decade or so, sloughing off the old persona, renewing and moving on. You are not who you were, he told her, nor who you will be. Votes: 2

I believe that love between people is the greatest life-giving force in the world. It's intensely frustrating and inevitably makes a fool of you, but you can't stop going back to it, and it's pretty much the defining experience of a human being. Votes: 1

I know. I was there. I saw the great void in your soul, and you saw mine. Votes: 1

Sometimes my whole life seems like a dream; occasionally I think that someone else has lived it for me. The events and the sensations, the stories and the things that make me what I am in the eyes of other people, the list of facts that make my life ... They could be mine, they might be yours. Votes: 1

How grand, to be a Doctor of whatever and to weigh up and decide people's future. Votes: 0

Cheers,' she said as I left, 'and don't forget you're seeing Matt and I on Monday.'I thought for a moment she'd said 'matineye', an East End pronunciation of 'matinee'. Was I meant to review it?Then I remembered Matt was the production editor.'Me won't forget,' me muttered as me went downstairs. Votes: 0

There's no such thing as identity: it's something we have to believe in to make life more tolerable. Votes: 0

And in that history you're trying to connect to something that once was yours - to something purer, better, something that you lost or something, maybe, that you never knew but that you feel you knew. Votes: 0

My direction? Anywhere. Because one is always nearer by not keeping still. Votes: 0

I want to be careful not to throw all this away. This is happiness. I think this is what happiness is. I haven't got it yet, but I can sense it out there. I feel I'm close to it. Some days, I'm so close I can almost smell it. Votes: 0

The thought of all that happiness was hard to bear. What's the point of happiness when all it does is throw the facts of dying into clear relief~? Votes: 0

That sense of happiness just out beyond my reach - I'm not sure I'd grasped that exactly, but I'd got something close to it, contentment maybe, or at least a functioning routine with regular rewards. Votes: 0

We're deaf men working as musicians; we play the music but we can't hear it. Votes: 0

A bit of the vagueness of music stops you going completely mad, I imagine. Votes: 0

I never for a moment considered killing myself, because it wouldn't have achieved anything. Votes: 0

Life can be lived at a remove. You trade in futures, and then you trade in derivatives of futures. Banks make more money trading derivatives than they do trading actual commodities. Votes: 0

A romantic is someone who believes that something is valuable even if it doesn't last. And a non-romantic is someone who says that if something doesn't endure, or can't be logically proved and pinned down, it's worthless. Votes: 0

If I could eat only one thing for the rest of my life, it would be rhubarb fool, which I make with ginger and a hint of elderflower cordial. Votes: 0

There aren't many great passages written about food, but I love one by George Millar, who worked for the SOE in the second world war and wrote a book called 'Horned Pigeon.' He had been on the run and hadn't eaten for a week, and his description of the cheese fondue he smells in the peasant kitchen of a house in eastern France is unbelievable. Votes: 0

It's possible there are no two books in publishing history more dissimilar than 'Human Traces' and 'Devil May Care.' And that was really the attraction of it. Votes: 0

All my books are about one major idea and two or three subsidiary ones. I have thought a lot about music when constructing books, and I like the way in music that themes come back. Votes: 0

The religion I know most about, which is the Christian one, would simply say that it's not really for one man or woman to know fully and to understand the nature of our brief human existence. Votes: 0

Certainly, we all have within us the potential to live in a hugely different way. And how happy you can make yourself, I think, a lot depends on how much you beat yourself up about that; and how much you can, in some sort of providential way, console yourself and say, 'Well, it's all worked out for the best, in the best of all possible worlds.' Votes: 0

Bond doesn't have an inner life. There would be moments when I'd think, 'We need to gather our thoughts here and have a breather,' where in another novel you'd slow the pace, have some description and see what Bond feels about this. But Bond doesn't reflect. All you can do is move on to the next bomb or shark or car. Votes: 0

. . . she read with undifferentiated glee . . . Votes: 0

All my life I had lived on the presumption that there was no existence beyond... flesh, the moment of being alive... then nothing. I had searched in superstition... But there was nothing. Then I heard the sound of my own life leaving me. It was so... tender. I regretted that I had paid it no attention. Then I believed in the wisdom of what other men had found before me... I saw that those simple things might be true... I never wanted to believe in them because it was better to fight my own battle. You can believe in something without compromising the burden of your own existence. Votes: 0

And sometimes in life, I imagine, good things do happen. Most of the time, it's the opposite, obviously. But I don't think you should rule out the possibility that just occasionally chance might deal you a good card. Votes: 0

As he rounded the corner, he saw two dozen men, naked to the waist, digging a hole thirty yards square at the side of the path. For a moment he was baffled. It seemed to have no agricultural purpose; there was no more planting or ploughing to be done. Then he realized what it was. They were digging a mass grave. He thought of shouting an order to about turn or at least to avert their eyes, but they were almost on it, and some of them had already seen their burial place. The songs died on their lips and the air was reclaimed by the birds. Votes: 0

Busy is good, isn't it? Busy means we're hard at it, achieving our ends or "goals." Haven't had time to stop, or look around or think. That's considered the sign of a life well lived ... Suppose, though, you're not sure that what you're doing is at all worthwhile. Suppose you blundered into it over a spoonful of lime pickle. It's easy, it pays quite well. But really it's a distraction. It stops you thinking about what you ought to be doing. Votes: 0

But I think if any song can touch the heart, then one should value it. Votes: 0

Depression - that limp word for the storm of black panic and half-demented malfunction - had over the years worked itself out in Charlotte's life in a curious pattern. Its onset was often imperceptible: like an assiduous housekeeper locking up a rambling mansion, it noiselessly went about and turned off, one by one, the mind's thousand small accesses to pleasure. Votes: 0

From an early age she had developed the art of being alone and generally preferred her own company to anyone else's. She read books at enormous speed and judged them entirely on her ability to remove her from her material surroundings. In almost all the unhappiest days of her life she had been able to escape from her own inner world by living temporarily in someone else's, and on the two or three occasions that she had been too upset to concentrate she had been desolate. Votes: 0

Have you ever been lonely? No, neither have I. Solitary, yes. Alone, certainly. But lonely means minding about being on your own. I've never minded about it. Votes: 0

He saw a picture in his mind of a terrible piling up of the dead. It came from his contemplation of the church, but it had its own clarity: the row on row, the deep rotting earth hollowed out to hold them, while the efforts of the living, with all their works and wars and great buildings, were no more than the beat of a wing against the weight of time. Votes: 0

He wrote one more paragraph for his own sake, to see what he had to say. Votes: 0

I am driven by a greater force than I can resist. I believe that force has its own reason and its own morality even if they may never be clear to me while I am alive Votes: 0

I breathed and breathed and did feel some calmness enter in, though it was, as always, shot with a sense of loss. Loss and fear. Votes: 0

I don't find life unbearably grave. I find it almost intolerably frivolous. Votes: 0

I don't like being rumbled, I like to be invisible. Votes: 0

I don't think you ever understand your life - not till it's finished and probably not then either. The more I live the less I seem to understand. Votes: 0

I have written millions of words about contemporary England - in journalism. Why don't I take it as the background for a novel? I may do one day. But the simple answer is that it does not excite the novelistic part of my brain; it does not fire it up. Votes: 0

I suppose I was lucky enough to be educated at a time when teachers still thought children could handle knowledge. They trusted us. Then there came a time when they decided that because not every kid in the class could understand or remember those things they wouldn't teach them anymore because it wasn't fair on the less good ones. So they withheld knowledge. Then I suppose the next lot of teachers didn't have the knowledge to withhold. Votes: 0

I think I have fallen in love and I believe the woman in question, though she has not said so, returns my feelings. How can I be sure when she has said nothing? Is this youthful vanity? I wish in some ways that it were. But I am so convinced that I barely need question myself. This conviction brings me no joy.["]I am driven by a greater force than I can resist. I believe that force has its own reason and its own morality even if they may never be clear to me while I am alive. Votes: 0

I'd never chosen to be alone, but that was the way things had turned out, and I'd grown used to it. Votes: 0

If at the one moment in your life when the chance of something transcendental is offered to you, if you have this chance to move beyond the surface of things, to understand - and you say, No, maybe not... What then? How do you explain the rest of your life to yourself? How do you pass the time until you die? Do you substitute for that an interest in what - eating? Do you spend the next sixty years trying to be fascinated by the act of breathing? Votes: 0

If not just the brain but the quirks that made the individual were composed of recycled matter only, it was hard to be sure where the edges of one such being ended and another person began. Votes: 0

If you have only one life, you cant altogether ignore the question: are you enjoying it? Votes: 0

Inhale and hold the evening in your lungs. Votes: 0

It was entirely silent and I tried to breathe its peace. Votes: 0

It was too difficult. People weren't prepared to put in the hours on the donkey work - you know, dates and facts and so on. I think in retrospect my generation will be seen as a turning point. From now on there'll be a net loss of knowledge in Europe. The difference between a peasant community in fourteenth-century Iran and modern London, though, is that if with their meager resources the villagers occasionally slipped backward, it was not for lack of trying. But with us, here in England, it was a positive choice. We chose to know less. Votes: 0

It's better to have a malign providence than an indifferent one. Votes: 0

It's only after the change is fully formed that you can see what's happened. Votes: 0

Knowing one was comprised of recycled matter only and that selfhood was a delusion did not take away the aching of the heart. Votes: 0

Lonely's like any other organism; competitive and resourceful in the struggle to perpetuate itself. Votes: 0

My own diagnosis of my problem is a simpler one. It's that I share 50 per cent of my genome with a banana and 98 per cent with a chimpanzee. Banana's don't do psychological consistency. And the tiny part of us that's different - the special Homo sapiens bit - is faulty. It doesn't work. Sorry about that. Votes: 0

One of the hardest things about being alive is being with other people. Votes: 0

One thing about London is that when you step out into the night, it swallows you. Votes: 0

Our own choices might not be as good as those that are made for us. Votes: 0

People never explain to you exactly what they think and feel and how their thoughts and feelings work, do they? They don't have time. Or the right words. But that's what books do. It's as though your daily life is a film in the cinema. It can be fun, looking at those pictures. But if you want to know what lies behind the flat screen you have to read a book. That explains it all. Votes: 0

Shakespeare drew a map of the human mind as clearly as Newton mapped the heavens. Wht is one considered science and the other fir only to be mocked with jokes about pretty girls and drury lane? Votes: 0

Something had been buried that was not yet dead. Votes: 0

The men loved jokes, though they had heard each one before. Jack's manner was persuasive; few of them had seen the old stories so well delivered. Jack himeself laughed a little, but he was able to see the effect his performance had on his audience. The noise of their laughter roared like the sea in his ears. He wanted it louder and louder; he wanted them to drown out the war with their laughter. If the could should loud enough, they might bring the world back to its senses; they might laugh loud enough to raise the dead. Votes: 0

The nicest characters in A Week in December are, in fact, Muslims - and their religious devotion is one of the things that defines them. Votes: 0

The past was suddenly rushing in on me in a way I found hard to fight. Votes: 0

The physical shock took away the pain of being. Votes: 0

The thing about opium is that it makes pain or difficulty unimaginable. Votes: 0

The thought of all that happiness was hard to bear. What's the point of happiness when all it does is throw the facts of dying into clear relief? Votes: 0

The thunder of false modesty was deafening. Votes: 0

There you are, sir. There's nothing more than to love and be loved. Votes: 0

They're so attached to their patterns that they've forgotten rule number one of human behavior: there are no patterns. People just do things. There's no such things as a coherent and fully integrated human personality, let alone consistent motivation. Votes: 0

This intimacy is not necessary; no one is compelling me to open my inmost self and lay it naked, undefended, against that of another "“ merely for the joy of the communion. Votes: 0

This is how most people live: alive, but not conscious; conscious but not aware; aware, but intermittently. Votes: 0

We all operate on different levels of awareness. Half the time I don't know what I'm doing. Votes: 0

Why take drugs specifically designed to send you insane? Votes: 0

You can't recall someone whose name has worn away. Votes: 0

You put your time where your priority is. Votes: 0