The language of America changed with the election of Bill Clinton, because with all due respect to my friends on the Republican side, Bill Clinton is the best communicator of the last 50 years. He felt your pain.
All objective pleasure in the long run must bring pain, because of the fact of change or death.
Because there are no fours.
If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.